This is what happens when parents do not communicate in a way that is aligned with the ADHD brain - ADHD Dude - Ryan Wexelblatt

 

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I greatly appreciate the parent who shared this with me because she illustrated what happens when you do not communicate with you child in a way that's aligned with the ADHD brain.

𝗪𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘂𝘀𝗲 𝗹𝗮𝗻𝗴𝘂𝗮𝗴𝗲 𝗮𝗹𝗶𝗴𝗻𝗲𝗱 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝗵𝗼𝘄 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗔𝗗𝗛𝗗 𝗯𝗿𝗮𝗶𝗻 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗸𝘀, 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘀𝗲𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗹𝗱 𝘂𝗽 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝘀𝘂𝗰𝗰𝗲𝘀𝘀. 𝗪𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗱𝗼𝗻'𝘁, 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗹𝗼𝘀𝗲 𝘁𝗲𝗮𝗰𝗵𝗮𝗯𝗹𝗲 𝗺𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁𝘀 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘀𝗲𝘁 𝗯𝗼𝘁𝗵 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿𝘀𝗲𝗹𝗳 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗹𝗱 𝘂𝗽 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗳𝗿𝘂𝘀𝘁𝗿𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻.

👇𝗖𝗼𝗺𝗺𝘂𝗻𝗶𝗰𝗮𝘁𝗲 𝗺𝗼𝘀𝘁 𝗲𝗳𝗳𝗲𝗰𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗲𝗹𝘆 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗹𝗱 𝗯𝘆👇
✅Use 80% less words that you intended.
✅Be clear, concise and concrete.
✅Stay on message & speak in soundbites so you don't get pulled into the argument/negotiation/reasoning vortex.
✅Avoid abstract & fluffy language.
✅Focus on the bigger picture.
✅Avoid playing armchair therapist, expecting answers to abstract questions or feeling words to be verbalized.
✅Be aware of language used to emotionally manipulate you. (𝘛𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘰𝘯𝘦 𝘪𝘴 𝘱𝘢𝘳𝘵𝘪𝘤𝘶𝘭𝘢𝘳𝘭𝘺 𝘪𝘮𝘱𝘰𝘳𝘵𝘢𝘯𝘵 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘮𝘰𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘴.)

𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗜 𝘁𝗲𝗮𝗰𝗵 𝗮𝗯𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗺𝘂𝗻𝗶𝗰𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗶𝘀 𝗮𝗻𝘁𝗶𝘁𝗵𝗲𝘁𝗶𝗰𝗮𝗹 𝘁𝗼 𝘄𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂'𝗹𝗹 𝗵𝗲𝗮𝗿 𝗳𝗿𝗼𝗺 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗽𝗼𝗽𝘂𝗹𝗮𝗿 𝗽𝗮𝗿𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗽𝗲𝗼𝗽𝗹𝗲 𝗼𝗻 𝘀𝗼𝗰𝗶𝗮𝗹 𝗺𝗲𝗱𝗶𝗮.

👉In 𝗦𝗰𝗮𝗳𝗳𝗼𝗹𝗱𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗕𝗲𝘁𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝗕𝗲𝗵𝗮𝘃𝗶𝗼𝗿 & 𝗦𝗲𝗹𝗳-𝗖𝗼𝗻𝗳𝗶𝗱𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲 (the first Parent Behavior Management program designed specifically for parents of kids with ADHD) I don't ask you to listen to hour long lectures or fill out worksheets. Who has time for that?
👉I get to the point and teach you practical strategies you can start implementing immediately. If full transparency, sometimes things need to get worse before they get better if your child is used to being able to control you, or your home.
👉I'm going to be 𝘤𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘳, 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘤𝘪𝘴𝘦 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘤𝘳𝘦𝘵𝘦 here:
If you do not shift the way you use language with your child it will be very difficult to see any improvement in their behavior, as well as executive function skills. You need to provide this "scaffolding" to help your child be successful.

📢𝗘𝘅𝗽𝗲𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗵𝗶𝗺/𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝘁𝗼 𝗰𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗿𝗼𝘂𝗴𝗵 "𝘁𝗮𝗹𝗸 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗮𝗽𝘆" 𝗶𝘀 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗽𝗹𝗲𝘁𝗲𝗹𝘆 𝘂𝗻𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗹𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗰, 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗮𝗹𝗶𝗴𝗻𝗲𝗱 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗔𝗺𝗲𝗿𝗶𝗰𝗮𝗻 𝗔𝗰𝗮𝗱𝗲𝗺𝘆 𝗼𝗳 𝗣𝗲𝗱𝗶𝗮𝘁𝗿𝗶𝗰𝘀 (𝗔𝗔𝗣) 𝗔𝗗𝗛𝗗 𝘁𝗿𝗲𝗮𝘁𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗴𝘂𝗶𝗱𝗲𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗲𝘀. 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗔𝗗𝗛𝗗 𝗗𝘂𝗱𝗲 𝗠𝗲𝗺𝗯𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽 𝗦𝗶𝘁𝗲 𝗳𝗼𝗹𝗹𝗼𝘄𝘀, 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗲𝘅𝗽𝗮𝗻𝗱𝘀 𝗼𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗔𝗔𝗣 𝘁𝗿𝗲𝗮𝘁𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗴𝘂𝗶𝗱𝗲𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗲𝘀.

📢𝗖𝗿𝗲𝗮𝘁𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗰𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘄𝗮𝗻𝘁 𝘁𝗼 𝘀𝗲𝗲 𝗯𝘆 𝘂𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗹𝗮𝗻𝗴𝘂𝗮𝗴𝗲 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘀𝘁𝗿𝗮𝘁𝗲𝗴𝗶𝗲𝘀 𝗮𝗹𝗶𝗴𝗻𝗲𝗱 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝗵𝗼𝘄 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗹𝗱'𝘀 𝗯𝗿𝗮𝗶𝗻 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗸𝘀.

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